Abraham Lincoln's White House - John Todd Stuart (1807-1885)
John Todd Stuart was known as "Jerry Sly." A favorite cousin of Mary Todd Lincoln and as a member of Congress after his election in 1862 over Republican Leonard Swett, he was a frequent visitor at the White House even though he was an anti-emancipation Democrat. He arrived in Washington for the December 1863 session of Congress and wrote his wife about attempts to see Mrs. Lincoln and his attendance at a reception for visiting Russian naval officers on December 19, 1863:
The next day (Saturday) cousin John & Sue called at Eleven and sent in their cards for Mrs. Lincoln. The messenger brought back that Mrs. Lincoln was dressing—that a card had been sent to Mrs. Craig to the reception that evening at from One to Two. I had also a card—and at One O'clock I called at Willards for Cousin Sue and Charley and we went to the White House. We went into the Blue Room bowed to Mr. Lincoln who held out his hand & said How are you Stuart! I introduced Cousin Sue & Charley and passed over to Cousin Mary. Her salutations were how are you Mrs. Craig!! How do you do Cousin John!!! and after a few common place words of ceremony & form we passed into the East Room. It was very select reception confined to Members of Congress, the Cabinet, Foreign legations and a few distinguished strangers. The dressing of the ladies was very elegant. The reception was give mainly to the Russian Navy who were present in full dress with their ladies who were magnificently dressed. Sue was in ecstacies and would exclaim that is real Tibet!! That is the genuine Cashmere! What magnificent cloth of Gold! We walked around and saw and heard all that was to be seen and heard. It was a scene for many reasons well worth being seen and remembered. After we had been some time in the East Room we received a message from Cousin Mary that she wished us to remain awhile after the reception was over. We did so and after the reception was over Charley [Craig], Cousins Sue [Craig} and myself were invited in Mary's private Room. After a very pleasant chat of several minutes I made my bow. Cousin John and Charley staid awhile longer who left Sue & Cousin Mary alone. Sue remained about one hour & left with an invitation to accompany Mary to Church to day, she promising to send her carriage to Willards for Sue & Charley and I believe also an invitation for them to dine at the White House to day."1
Stuart came to the White House when Emilie Todd Helm was visiting. She recalled: "in his manner of greeting me he could not have been more deferential and courtly if he had been bending over the royal hand of Queen Victoria. In his avoidance of any reference to my bereavement he shows his gentle kindness."2
He was defeated in 1864 by Republican Shelby Moore Cullom, a Lincoln ally. Shortly before Mr. Lincoln died, he told Stuart: "Mary does not expect ever to go back there and don't want to go, but I did. I expect to go back and make my home in Springfield for the rest of my life."3 Stuart later chaired the effort to erect a monument over Lincoln's grave in Springfield. Cullom visited Mr. Lincoln in late 1864 and stumbled awkwardly into a meeting of the Cabinet: "I colored to the roots of my hair, begged pardon for the intrusion and started to go out. President Lincoln arose from his chair at the head of the table and called me by name. He came over to me, got hold of my hand and pulled me into the group of cabinet members. As he did so he said to the secretary of state, 'Seward, I want you to know this boy. You remember the old congressman from Springfield named Stewart [sic]? I want to introduce to you the boy who beat him. This is the boy.' He thereupon presented me to the different secretaries. I shook hands with them and backed my way out just as soon as I could."4
Stuart was a law partner of Abraham Lincoln’s from 1837 until 1841. Stuart met Lincoln in the Black Hawk War in which Stuart was a major—before he met any of the other members of the Todd clan. He was a fellow legislator and Whig leader when Lincoln first was elected to the Illinois Assembly; he encouraged Lincoln's study of the law. He was outgoing and friendly but a political manipulator behind the scenes. Stuart ran unsuccessfully for Congress in 1836, but defeated Stephen Douglas in 1838 and served until 1842. He practiced law with Benjamin Edwards, who was a brother of Ninian Edwards, Lincoln's brother-in-law. Later, Stuart and Lincoln diverged politically. Stuart backed Millard Fillmore for President in 1856 and Stephen Douglas in 1858. He was the unsuccessful Constitutional Union candidate for Governor of Illinois in 1860.